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jeweliegirl
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15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« on: 29.09.2022 at 02:13 [UT+1] »
 
Hello!
 Long back story here. We were very much in love..But life forced us apart 15 years ago and now we are both single once again and consistently in touch as of the last 2 months.  
 
He says he's still in love with me and I am still in love with him.
   
   But we are 3-4 hours drive away from one another and he has major health issues while I am in good health.
 We have not seen each other in 9 years. I have stayed mostly single all this time. He was married.  
 
    I am having a lot of anxiety over what is happening. I have so dreamed for this time to come yet it feels like we still may not come together and I can't figure out what is going on?  
   
  Are we still meant to stay apart..fate? Its like there 'Was' and now 'Is' one thing or another keeping us apart.
Its sooo painful for me!!
   
We text every day and have talked. So much Love there. I have tried to arrange to meet but he ignores me. His wife was very ill with Cancer for a long time so I am thinking he must just be in mourning and I feel for him!
  So I do not push anything between us. I respect him and give him space.
 
I would like to know if the transits are showing anything separately and with our synastry charts in regards to us re-uniting as a couple any time in the future??
 
Its tearing me up!
 
Thank You So Very Much! Regina  
 
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Re: 15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« Reply #1 - on: 29.09.2022 at 02:33 [UT+1] »
 
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Re: 15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« Reply #2 - on: 29.09.2022 at 02:35 [UT+1] »
 
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Re: 15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« Reply #3 - on: 29.09.2022 at 06:12 [UT+1] »
 
Could you post your natal with transits (and his with transits as well) but without this spacedust - Asteroids are useless and just clutter the picture.
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« Reply #4 - on: 29.09.2022 at 23:16 [UT+1] »
 
PLease??? embarrassed
Bump
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« Reply #5 - on: 29.09.2022 at 23:50 [UT+1] »
 
Hello Regina -
 
all the charts you have posted are half cut off- important grid below -with planet placements, aspect list and house cusp - is missing.  
 
Also in your synastry. But a synastry without the grid below is illegible and you should be inside the circle as the questioner.
 
 
What is common here and what we need to see here as chart...is this... without useless asteroid stuff is always very appreciated ...
 
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« Reply #6 - on: 30.09.2022 at 00:27 [UT+1] »
 
Quote from Laura on 29.09.2022 at 23:50 [UT+1]:

Also in your synastry. But a synastry without the grid below is illegible and you should be inside the circle as the questioner.

 
The grid below is needed to comfortably compare both planet placements.
 
Pls. confirm that his TOB is accurate and from his birth certificate - as if not  - detailed and accurate information is not possible  
 
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« Reply #7 - on: 30.09.2022 at 05:49 [UT+1] »
 
Thank you so much Laura! I have never seemed to be able to post charts properly. I appreciate your guidance on that!
 Yes his info is correct. Thanks Again!
 Regina
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« Reply #8 - on: 30.09.2022 at 09:44 [UT+1] »
 
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We text every day and have talked. So much Love there. I have tried to arrange to meet but he ignores me.

 
Unfortunately, sounds more like he sees you as a good friend.
Your Mercury’s don’t connect and there isn't a strong aspect for lasting romantic relationship between Mars and Venus
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« Reply #9 - on: 30.09.2022 at 19:45 [UT+1] »
 
Thx Librasun! Yes he needs a friend right now!
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Re: 15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« Reply #10 - on: 01.10.2022 at 06:37 [UT+1] »
 
Well, there his Amyour K
His E your I
His D uyour E
His DpyourB
His Eoyour D
Your obsessive streak ,midpoint J/ BmhisJ
Your JohisC,ruler of 7
Your Vx m his K
Strong attraction ,is not ruled out.
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Re: 15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« Reply #11 - on: 01.10.2022 at 07:29 [UT+1] »
 
Quote from librasun on 30.09.2022 at 09:44 [UT+1]:
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We text every day and have talked. So much Love there. I have tried to arrange to meet but he ignores me.


Unfortunately, sounds more like he sees you as a good friend.
Your Mercury’s don’t connect and there isn't a strong aspect for lasting romantic relationship between Mars and Venus

 
You don't see the close square between her Venus and his Mars? That's a lot of attraction. Squares can be very productive energy especially at a mature age.  
Also, what about his Sun sharply conjunct her NN? I would say that's huge. He definitely feels an immense pull towards her.  
Am really surprised by your direct negative inference.  
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« Reply #12 - on: 01.10.2022 at 07:31 [UT+1] »
 
His Sun is bang on your NN.  
It could be his (and yours) destiny to get together for mutual growth at some point in life, especially at a later age.  
I do think there is reason for hope here.
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« Reply #13 - on: 01.10.2022 at 10:48 [UT+1] »
 
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You don't see the close square between her Venus and his Mars? That's a lot of attraction. Squares can be very productive energy especially at a mature age.
Also, what about his Sun sharply conjunct her NN? I would say that's huge. He definitely feels an immense pull towards her.
Am really surprised by your direct negative inference.
 
 
I was not being negative at all. I put what I felt. I can see the attraction but don't feel the sqaure to be an easy aspect between them.  
The question was will they reunite as a couple, and I personally can't see this but can see a really strong friendship. It was my personal view of the chart as was yours.
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Re: 15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« Reply #14 - on: 01.10.2022 at 12:12 [UT+1] »
 
Quote from librasun on 01.10.2022 at 10:48 [UT+1]:
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You don't see the close square between her Venus and his Mars? That's a lot of attraction. Squares can be very productive energy especially at a mature age.
Also, what about his Sun sharply conjunct her NN? I would say that's huge. He definitely feels an immense pull towards her.
Am really surprised by your direct negative inference.


I was not being negative at all. I put what I felt. I can see the attraction but don't feel the sqaure to be an easy aspect between them.
The question was will they reunite as a couple, and I personally can't see this but can see a really strong friendship. It was my personal view of the chart as was yours.

 
I’ll be negative here though ..,
 
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So much Love there. I have tried to arrange to meet but he ignores me.

 
Does anyone not see this red flag waving ?!
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Re: 15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« Reply #15 - on: 02.10.2022 at 11:53 [UT+1] »
 
Quote from AquariusDecan3 on 01.10.2022 at 12:12 [UT+1]:
Quote from librasun on 01.10.2022 at 10:48 [UT+1]:
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You don't see the close square between her Venus and his Mars? That's a lot of attraction. Squares can be very productive energy especially at a mature age.
Also, what about his Sun sharply conjunct her NN? I would say that's huge. He definitely feels an immense pull towards her.
Am really surprised by your direct negative inference.


I was not being negative at all. I put what I felt. I can see the attraction but don't feel the sqaure to be an easy aspect between them.
The question was will they reunite as a couple, and I personally can't see this but can see a really strong friendship. It was my personal view of the chart as was yours.


I’ll be negative here though ..,

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So much Love there. I have tried to arrange to meet but he ignores me.


Does anyone not see this red flag waving ?!

 
Yes I did AD I was just trying not to be too harsh  Grin
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Re: 15 years Apart but in Love. Will We Re-Unite?
« Reply #16 - on: 02.10.2022 at 18:46 [UT+1] »
 
The unflinching Faith can move mountains and the power of belief in a Soulmate...merging... redemption etc...very  much reckons sometimes...given basic requirement for love is felt here in  both .
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