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Laura
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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #20 - on: 26.07.2022 at 22:08 [UT+1] »
 
Quote from ivanna27 on 02.06.2022 at 13:16 [UT+1]:
Hello, my daughter has been struggling with depression, anxiety and many, many sleepless nights for more that 1 year and 6 months already

 
Hello Ivanna,
 
I can understand how you feel as her mother - it is always awful to helplessly watch own child like this.
 
1 year and 6th months ago - your daughter had transit saturn squaring her natal saturn sitting cusp her 8th house and on axis 2nd house/ 8th house axis of existence. 8th house - house of endings (also figuratively a relationship as a deep transformation experience)- house of psyche and deep anxiety and fears. But transit saturn same time has also supported her - by trining her gemini sun - to get not lost in her deep hurted feelings.
 
And your daughter had transit neptune starting degree exact challenging squaring her mercury - as ruler of her 7th house - relationships.  
 
But what makes it more difficult - is that her mercury also rules her 6th house - health and work - also to work on something. And also rules her 9th house - higher education and university and also religious faith in a higher power above and self-trust.
 
All 3 houses and lifethemes opened up at same time - if her mercury is transit activated. This really can kinda get overwhelming. But this transit is over now.
 
A neptune transit - as one of the higher spiritual energies - always works on different levels at same time and is able to withdraw all energy to the inside for a while and during transit.
 
During this transit her natal moon opp. pluto  -as a well known powerful energy flow to her from birth on - was interrupted. This can get very irritating in the beginning - as one doesn't understand oneself anymore and what is going on.
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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #21 - on: 27.07.2022 at 09:02 [UT+1] »
 
Quote from Laura on 26.07.2022 at 22:08 [UT+1]:
Quote from ivanna27 on 02.06.2022 at 13:16 [UT+1]:
Hello, my daughter has been struggling with depression, anxiety and many, many sleepless nights for more that 1 year and 6 months already


Hello Ivanna,

I can understand how you feel as her mother - it is always awful to helplessly watch own child like this.

1 year and 6th months ago - your daughter had transit saturn squaring her natal saturn sitting cusp her 8th house and on axis 2nd house/ 8th house axis of existence. 8th house - house of endings (also figuratively a relationship as a deep transformation experience)- house of psyche and deep anxiety and fears. But transit saturn same time has also supported her - by trining her gemini sun - to get not lost in her deep hurted feelings.

And your daughter had transit neptune starting degree exact challenging squaring her mercury - as ruler of her 7th house - relationships.

But what makes it more difficult - is that her mercury also rules her 6th house - health and work - also to work on something. And also rules her 9th house - higher education and university and also religious faith in a higher power above and self-trust.

All 3 houses and lifethemes opened up at same time - if her mercury is transit activated. This really can kinda get overwhelming. But this transit is over now.

A neptune transit - as one of the higher spiritual energies - always works on different levels at same time and is able to withdraw all energy to the inside for a while and during transit.

During this transit her natal moon opp. pluto -as a well known powerful energy flow to her from birth on - was interrupted. This can get very irritating in the beginning - as one doesn't understand oneself anymore and what is going on.

Dear Laura,
You made it so clear and explained it very detailed to me! Thank you! Thank you very much that you took your time to look at my daughters' charts. Wish you health and love!
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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #22 - on: 30.09.2022 at 19:01 [UT+1] »
 
Quote from Linda Harris on 02.06.2022 at 22:07 [UT+1]:
One thing I have learned from years of speaking to people about their children ....is that some of the dynamics inherent in the child are not perceived by the parents. Children are very good at hiding some of their feelings from their parents - even with (what seems like) honest and open discussion.

Children (and sometimes very young children) do not want their parents to be bothered with their feelings as they believe it will upset the mom or dad or the family....so they may not be totally honest. And even when you believe honestly that you see all there IS to know, you may not.

That is why astrology is so useful. It shows us, the experienced interpreters, all the truth...at least all the truth we are meant to see.

Which is why I asked for the composite of your daughters chart with yours. There may be some dynamic (or long term transit or transits) sabotaging your relationship with her.

So think about how much you want to get to the cause of this.....perhaps it will help. And since this is a ''free'' forum, what can you lose?

Lainie Smiley

Dear Lainie,
Very sorry to disturb you.
You asked for our composite charts and then, to be honest, I thought it is useless, but I listened to your advice and we both started visiting psychologist -unfortunately she felt better for a short period during the summer, we went on some vacations but she starts feeling  sad again and I am horrified she might get back in her depressive mood. She will start courses in Biology and Chemistry next week- so I believe she will have to study a lot and she hopefully will be distracted from her suffering. I send you here our composite chart.. By the way, we also visited an astrologer here but unfortunately her predictions doesn't seem to be right.. I myself started studying astrology too Smiley to try and read her transits.If you think you can help me, I would be very grateful. Thank you very much. Wish you health and love!
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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #23 - on: 01.10.2022 at 23:19 [UT+1] »
 
Even though there are astrological reasons for what is happening now, this does NOT create a ''cure.''
There is SOMETHING that happened that she is NOT getting over. One of the reasons she isn't getting over it is that Neptune, which probably had something to do with the initial problem, is STILL affecting her life.  It hangs over her.  Like a big dark cloud.
 
AND transit Jupiter is not helping ....because it is square the Sun/Venus  in the composite chart...which means you are both making yourselves upset with each other. I can't tell you how to make her feel better. Because I don't think you had anything to do with the initial issues she had.  
 
I know...you want her to be normal....and until she is on the road she was before whatever it is that happened....you will feel insecure and frightened...and off balance.
 
Transit Uranus is still square her Neptune...and this, along with Neptune, is a long lasting transit.  So....I don't know what she revealed to her counselor...but if was not truthful and open about the issue....the event...the series of events that were traumatic, then she could not be helped.
 
She needs to be able to talk about this/these issues/events openly and often until she is exhausted by it ...and finally understand whatever the truth is...and what she had to learn or accept.
 
Lainie
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« Reply #24 - on: 03.10.2022 at 03:39 [UT+1] »
 
North node 0 d is important.!!!!
This speaks of allowing to nurtured. In the past it did not happen.  
Fifth house is play time.  
 
Creative. Groups
My 2 cents worth.  
Nodal axis can point the road.  
 
To be nutured with play. Inner child. North node.
I want to be the little inner child. Inside her.  
11th part of the group.
 
She can accept therapy through expressing the inner creative child. Move on through there getting the inside out.  
 
 
 
 
 
 
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« Reply #25 - on: 05.10.2022 at 14:10 [UT+1] »
 
Dear Lainie,
thank you very much. Yes, I think you are right. I hope brighter time will come....  cry
Quote from Linda Harris on 01.10.2022 at 23:19 [UT+1]:
Even though there are astrological reasons for what is happening now, this does NOT create a ''cure.''
There is SOMETHING that happened that she is NOT getting over. One of the reasons she isn't getting over it is that Neptune, which probably had something to do with the initial problem, is STILL affecting her life. It hangs over her. Like a big dark cloud.

AND transit Jupiter is not helping ....because it is square the Sun/Venus in the composite chart...which means you are both making yourselves upset with each other. I can't tell you how to make her feel better. Because I don't think you had anything to do with the initial issues she had.

I know...you want her to be normal....and until she is on the road she was before whatever it is that happened....you will feel insecure and frightened...and off balance.

Transit Uranus is still square her Neptune...and this, along with Neptune, is a long lasting transit. So....I don't know what she revealed to her counselor...but if was not truthful and open about the issue....the event...the series of events that were traumatic, then she could not be helped.

She needs to be able to talk about this/these issues/events openly and often until she is exhausted by it ...and finally understand whatever the truth is...and what she had to learn or accept.

Lainie

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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #26 - on: 05.10.2022 at 14:13 [UT+1] »
 
Dear MaryBare,
thank you for your answer. To be honest, I didn't get what exactly you mean.... Do you mean she has traumas from her childhood or she needs attention and love and to be nurtured like a baby?
 
Quote from MaryBare on 03.10.2022 at 03:39 [UT+1]:
North node 0 d is important.!!!!
This speaks of allowing to nurtured. In the past it did not happen.
Fifth house is play time.

Creative. Groups
My 2 cents worth.
Nodal axis can point the road.

To be nutured with play. Inner child. North node.
I want to be the little inner child. Inside her.
11th part of the group.

She can accept therapy through expressing the inner creative child. Move on through there getting the inside out.







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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #27 - on: 05.10.2022 at 19:56 [UT+1] »
 
dNorth node
Has ridiculous difficult time allowing this.
They came in knowing all the rules to be a professional.
Business. All comes to them easy.  Calling the shots.  
This time around. They allow people to call the shots.
Depend.  
Over life times, they were in charge.  
I have known several with this north node.  
They hate dependent in any way.  They sharp in taking care others and themselves.  
 
It does not mean she traumatized by you  
It just she needs to  allow vulnerable and nurturing.  
 
Nothing about you
Since fifth house, she also gets to play  
Create.  
Have fun with the inner child.  
 
North nodes often  point the way  
Transits as Lanie mentioned can too.  
Anxiety.  
Depression.  
I can really pull the rug out.  
Sq O
 
Don't blame yourself.  
Maybe she just too busy to learn how.  
So many therapies.  
Talk to art.  
CBT
Hopefully, her therapist a good fit.  
If not move on.  
 
 
 
 
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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #28 - on: 05.10.2022 at 20:01 [UT+1] »
 
Hello MaryBare, Thank you for your clarification. Now I understand what you mean.  SmileyI see- contradictive nature Smiley Wish you good luck!
 
Quote from MaryBare on 05.10.2022 at 19:56 [UT+1]:
dNorth node
Has ridiculous difficult time allowing this.
They came in knowing all the rules to be a professional.
Business. All comes to them easy. Calling the shots.
This time around. They allow people to call the shots.
Depend.
Over life times, they were in charge.
I have known several with this north node.
They hate dependent in any way. They sharp in taking care others and themselves.

It does not mean she traumatized by you
It just she needs to allow vulnerable and nurturing.

Nothing about you.


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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #29 - on: 05.10.2022 at 20:53 [UT+1] »
 
Hello again MaryBare, just wanted to tell you that I probably should stop even trying to understand astrology any more 😁😁😁😁 because what I saw is that her North Node is in Aries in 3rd house -it seems astrology is not for me!Thank you once more😊
Quote from MaryBare on 05.10.2022 at 19:56 [UT+1]:
dNorth node
Has ridiculous difficult time allowing this.
They came in knowing all the rules to be a professional.
Business. All comes to them easy. Calling the shots.
This time around. They allow people to call the shots.
Depend.
Over life times, they were in charge.
I have known several with this north node.
They hate dependent in any way. They sharp in taking care others and themselves.

It does not mean she traumatized by you
It just she needs to allow vulnerable and nurturing.

Nothing about you
Since fifth house, she also gets to play
Create.
Have fun with the inner child.

North nodes often point the way
Transits as Lanie mentioned can too.
Anxiety.
Depression.
I can really pull the rug out.
Sq O

Don't blame yourself.
Maybe she just too busy to learn how.
So many therapies.
Talk to art.
CBT
Hopefully, her therapist a good fit.
If not move on.





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Re: Will my daughter be happy this year?
« Reply #30 - on: 10.10.2022 at 23:54 [UT+1] »
 
For anyone still reading this, I want to point out that astrology is NOT meant to take the place of ''common sense''....or therapy, or working on a relationship...whether a parent/child relationship, a friendship, a romantic or work relationship.
 
Lainie  Wink
 
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