Cardinal Water
- Ruler: Moon
- Exalted: Jupiter
- Detriment: Saturn
- Fall: Mars
As a cardinal water sign, a useful image for Cancer
is water moving powerfully in one direction or another, such as rivers
and waterfalls and waves. I think the key to this sign is its tidal
nature, since it is ruled by the Moon, which is constantly waxing or
waning and rules the ebb and flow of the tides. Physically, Cancer
rules the breasts and the stomach, the functions of giving out nourishment
to others and taking in nourishment for oneself. As long as the ebb
and flow are kept in some kind of balance, this sign tends to function
positively.
When the tide is coming in, Cancerians
can be sociable, generous and loving, crazy, lunatic and exuberant.
When the tide is going out the Cancerian will retreat and you will
get nothing but the shell. You can knock on the shell but there is
nobody there. In common with all the water signs, there is something
very private about this sign. Cancerians will hide under rocks and
not respond, except under duress, when they are likely to be extremely
crabby and touchy. The Cancerian Marcel Proust, whose life can be
described as falling into two major tides, spent the first half of
his life as a socialite, and the second half of his life as a recluse
in a padded apartment in Paris, during which time he wrote his famous
book, The Remembrance of Things Past, which is full of references
to his mother and to memories of food. This is an extremely sensitive
sign with strong emotional connections to the past, not just the personal
past but an interest in the origins and roots of all things.
Cancerians can do nostalgia better than any other sign.
It is not unusual for Cancerians to get stuck at one
extreme end of the spectrum. At the all-nurturing, all-giving, all-providing,
all-self sacrificing end of this tidal spectrum, there is often a shadow
side which is full of resentment and self pity. Alternatively, the
all-demanding, dependent, needy, vulnerable end of the spectrum is
too much for most people to cope with, which will reinforce the sense
of abandonment and dependency and the Cancerian will become even more
emotionally demanding and clingy. Cancerians can also be masters of
emotional blackmail, along the lines of: ‘If you don’t eat my food,
it means you don’t love me’.
The positive integration of Saturn and Mars, which
are in their detriment and fall in Cancer, can help the Cancerian to
develop the strength to stand on their own feet (Saturn) and to stand
up for themselves (Mars). As a cardinal sign, Cancer is extremely tenacious
and determined and, like a crab, tends to approach its goals subtly
and invisibly and, when nobody else is looking, get what it wants to
the surprise of all.
Audience: What is the meaning of the Jupiter exaltation in
Cancer?
Clare: Ultimately, the sense of belonging which is such a
feature of this sign reaches beyond the personal clan to greater connections
to community, society, country, to ancestors and back into history.
Water is impersonal; it is just as likely, and a great deal safer,
for a Cancerian to draw their strength not from their personal mother
or family, but from a deep emotional connection to Mother Earth herself.
Jupiter expands, and in this sense Cancerians can often find meaning
through a sense of belonging to something which is much larger than
the personal family.
Audience: My son is a Cancerian, and I never feel that I really
know him. I can never get to his centre.
Clare: It sounds as if you are trying to force his shell open,
which is unlikely to succeed. Cancer is immensely protective and self-protective.
The strength of this cardinal water sign is that it achieves its goals
quietly and subtly. It is prepared to wait for the tide, or until everybody
else has lost interest. I suspect that your son doesn’t want you to
penetrate into his soft centre, which he will only reveal in his own
time and on his own terms. Most of the time he is likely to throw up
smoke screens as a way of defending himself.
Audience: But why won’t he ever give me a straight answer
to a straight question?
Clare: Do you, by any chance, have a strong air emphasis in
your chart? Yes, I thought so. This is a good example of the tension
between the opposite elements of air and water. You won’t get a straight
answer because your son is a water sign. You will get deflection, deviation
and changing the subject, and you will get a lot of other stuff, but
what is really happening is that you are not getting the answer. This
is not accidental, but an example of a watery defensive mechanism working
powerfully.
Audience: I thought that Cancerians were very trusting.
Clare: I don't think so. My feeling is that this sign naturally
tends not to trust unless it is absolutely safe to do so. On the other
hand it is normally safe to trust the past and to trust memories.
Planets in Cancer
Sally has Mars in Cancer,
so this will describe how she asserts and defends herself. This is
an extremely self-protective placement, and Sally is likely to protect
her own feelings very strongly. Although this planet is traditionally
in its fall in Cancer, it also describes the kind of fierce aggression
with which a mother will protect her young. In the animal world no
other animals will take on the mother with cubs because she will fight
to the death to protect them. If we can find the right relationship
to this placement of Mars, there is nothing weak about it at all.
Audience: I have Uranus in Cancer, and I have certainly rebelled
against my family and even against my country, since I left the US
when I was eighteen. As soon as I could, basically.
Clare: Yes, that is an excellent example of a generational
issue. Uranus was in Cancer from June 1949 until August 1955, with
a brief period back in Cancer between January and June 1956. A kind
of shorthand for Uranus in the chart is to ask, ‘What is it that we
don’t believe in?’, or ‘Where do we feel cut off?’ Uranus in Cancer
refers to a particular group of people who, in general terms, don’t
believe in family, in belonging or in any kind of biological containment.
Any kind of nest will make Uranus in Cancer panic. Many people with
Uranus in Cancer actually dislike their relatives and simply don’t
want to be involved with their family. They will leave home or travel
to another country as soon as possible.
The Uranus in Cancer generation often feel like strangers
in their own family or in their own culture, and the urge will be to
challenge the status quo or to escape. There is a kind of double bind
to this. On the one hand, as a generation there is an urge to break
down the old patterns and habits, rebel against the restrictions and
limitations of family and culture and seek to find new ways to belong
which are not genetically or historically programmed. This generation
will seek to make new connections based on intellectual honesty and
shared minds and new ways of living. The Uranus in Cancer generation,
for example, has tended to reject the values and religious traditions
of their own cultures, finding it much easier to adopt the religious
and philosophical traditions of cultures other than their own. Before
1949 we could even say that the ‘nuclear family’ was the rock upon
which societies and cultures were built, and that it was not until
Uranus entered Cancer that this began to be challenged. Nowadays, of
course, we take the fragmentation and breakdown of the family unit
for granted, and one-parent families are now the norm.
On the other hand, from a personal point of view,
this fragmentation can be immensely painful because, as ordinary human
beings, it is hard for us to feel alienated from our biological and
cultural roots. Taken to extremes, this placement can lead to a refusal
to belong to any group at all or, as Groucho Marx famously remarked,
to any club which will have us as a member, which means that we can
be in a state of rejection and refusal which traps us just as much
as being caught within a family clan. This is an example of the way
our Uranian ideology can trap and imprison us. We can find ourselves
rebelling against and pushing away any intimacy and containment which,
on one level, is anathema to us but which, on an ordinary, human, lunar
level we desperately need. If there are other planets in Cancer as
well as Uranus, then a tension is set up because you are part of a
generation that wants to destroy the very thing you need on a personal
level.
The point I am trying to make here is that, unless
we can make some kind of conscious relationship to the generational
issues we are all born into, then we are at their mercy. At its most
dangerous, Uranus is ‘group think’, blind, collective ideology. This
can result in an identification with some kind of external ideology
which has never been taken down in voltage, internalized or brought
down to a human scale. We need a strong ego structure in order to find
our own relationship to the collective forces if we are not to be possessed
by them.
Audience: I have Uranus in Cancer, and as soon as I went to
university my parents sold the family house and moved to the other
side of the country. I found that devastating.
Audience: I find that as I get older, my family gets more
important.
Clare: Perhaps at last, now that you have a strong enough
sense of yourself and a good strong ego structure, it is safe to get
closer to them without being overwhelmed. There is no doubt that with
Uranus and Cancer you can be the positive carrier of necessary change
and honest truthfulness, which your family can benefit from considerably.
Audience: Does that mean that the current generation who are
being born with Uranus in Aquarius will be against ideologies?
Clare: Well, that would be a logical assumption, but I suppose
we will have to wait and see.

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