During this time a particular sore point of yours is disturbed, a
sensitivity or vulnerability that you may not be aware of. So it may well
be that you react as you have perhaps always reacted to such situations:
You are distressed, hurt, you distance yourself and forget the incident as
quickly as possible. If you do not react by withdrawing as you usually do,
but instead show that you have been hurt, you will earn the freedom to
behave differently in this, for you, typical situation. That is, of
course, easier said than done, but this influence offers you an outstanding
opportunity to stand far enough outside yourself to show your own injuries.
If you recognize the situation in question and react to it, you will win
new strength and confidence.
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