17-Jan-2017, 22:00 UT/GMT
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Passion and power are likely to be big themes with this combination, and combustible Aries is a match for deep, sultry Scorpio in energy, sexual magnetism, and imaginative gifts.
Both of you love a challenge and a bit of conflict in order to keep the fires of romance alive, and both of you can lose interest in a partner who is too accommodating ... read more
It's said that you can recognise Scorpios by their stare. Enigmatic, penetrating, probing while revealing nothing, even hostile or ruthless. This little cameo, along with the infamous passion usually attributed to the sign, has gone a long way toward making life pretty difficult for you. After all, when someone at a party asks you what sign you ... read more
Aries people need to have a goal. Without the goal, life is meaningless. The goal can be long-term or short-term (short- term is usually best, since this sign isn't endowed with vast quantities of patience), but there must be a shining vision at the end of the chase. The Aries partner needs a quest, and is constitutionally incapable of settling into chronic domesticity without the feeling that there's a new challenge just around the corner. If you want someone who'll always be available to clip the hedges and have Christmas dinner with your parents, year after year, decade after decade, choose another sign.
For Aries, life is a constant struggle to generate new ideas which will improve the world. However impatient, irascible and insensitive they are, Aries people need to feel that they can create new opportunities for change. That's why it's not a good idea for you to be too sensible too much of the time. Admittedly, living with an Aries partner can be stressful if you're the type who likes unchanging security and an immovable status quo.
There's more than a little of the gambler in Aries, whether it's with money, emotions or ideas. Some Aries people love fast cars and dangerous sports. Many Ariens are so infuriatingly energetic that you get exhausted just watching them. They rush about with eighteen irons in the fire, all heating, as though they take some kind of invisible pill which makes it unnecessary to eat, sleep, rest or contemplate. They're usually in a hurry, pushing you along until you're breathless, even when there seems no reason to be that urgent.
When they want something, Ariens aren't subtle (unless you've found one of those frightened Ariens who lost the fighting spirit in childhood). No emotional blackmail or strategic planning or diplomatic statesmanship. Just a simple "Do it!" If you don't, you're liable to get a tantrum - a slammed door and an evening of frosty silence, or a verbal harangue, or a few smashed plates.
Ariens can be querulous, irritable and bad-tempered. When they're fired up about something, nothing else seems as right, as true, as self-evident. They simply don't notice that you have your own opinions, unless you shout at them. And they're often genuinely hurt if you think they're being selfish or egocentric. In fact, the Aries partner is no more selfish than anyone else, and frequently less so. He is just more honest about it. He can be warm, supportive and generous, and will usually believe the best about people until unpleasantly surprised. Meanness and spite bewilder and wound him, so don't unleash it.
Learn to be as direct, open and honourable as your Aries, and you'll fare much better. One way or another, you'll never be bored. Even repressed, insecure Rams aren't boring; their neuroses are always interesting, if taxing. If you want a stolid, placid mate, stay away from Aries. His path in life isn't about contentment. It's about challenge, change and the pursuit of the great dream. Why not join in?
The Aries man has a brave and noble heart. He can also be insufferably patronising. You may have to hit him with a brick to remind him that his interference may not be welcome, and you have to virtually turn him inside out to get him to understand that you can protect yourself. The Aries man often feels obliged to keep up a heroic image even when ... read more